we cannot change the inevitable.

"The remarkable thing is we have a

choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past. We cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude...

I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me, and 90% how I react to it...

we are in charge of our Attitudes." 

~ Charles Swindoll